Saturday, October 18, 2014

(Turning) 41 (on Day) 2 (walking) 20 (miles)

Day 2 -- my 41st birthday -- began, again, at 5:30 am.
Kim, Melissa & a few others stayed up, again, until 1 am.
Let's just say I felt every bit of the 41 years I was going to get to spend the day celebrating!  

 The beautiful flowers that Sarah & the boys sent me for my birthday

 Pink ribbon cookies compliments of Melissa

 Team Diamond Stone #9 team in fundraising 
Komen Atlanta 3 Day 
Woohoo!!!!

 The Coffee Kids is an Atlanta youth group that comes out every year with hot coffee, homemade bread with butter & honey.
They're always out on the route on Day 2 in the morning.
There's always a LINE to get their goodies! 
We love The Coffee Kids!

 Melissa hearts The Coffee Kids





 Dad & 2 boys waiting for their mom along the route
The little boy's sign says: "Mommy!  I love you.  I hope you are OK at the hotel.  I miss you."
Tears, I tell you.  Tears.  




 Mimosas at Mile 14
Can you say refill, please???

 My good buddy, Leah Diamond Stone, came to see me (and her mom!) on the route



 Cati, Tracy & Aimee -- all members of Team Diamond Stone -- are also Ford Warriors in Pink Models of Courage
Yeah, I know famous people.  

 Cati & Tracy



 Dalton & Joi


 Martha was ready for the ride home


 Our vicious team mascot, Madge, FINALLY made it in to town

 My thoughtful in-laws, Helen & Charles, sent me a Sweet Treat

I am so lucky!  

The day was breathtakingly beautiful!

Which included:  

An unbelievable cheering station at Lindbergh marta station (Um, mimosas during the walk?!).  So many kind folks came out to cheer us on!

An amazing lunch in Martha's condo along the route in Buckhead (which also included mimosas)

A Holy Shitake pizza from Mellow Mushroom for dinner

A surprise birthday cake

Team Diamond Stone's "Crippled Dance" (hobbled to the tune of "The Hustle")

Cheez-Its & string cheese at 2 of the pit stops 

No line at the port-o-potty's at Pit Stop 4

Candy Cane chapstick that makes your lips tingle

Dancing cross guards

Temporary tattoos

Boob jokes

And,

A man wheeling his mother down the route in a wheelchair.  She's a breast cancer survivor and he is doing the 3 day for her & with her.  By pushing her 60 miles in 3 days in a wheelchair.

Two feet covered in blisters, sore muscles and aches & pains in places I never knew I had.  Because that means I'm alive & well & able to walk for a cause.  I hurt tonight, but I'll get better.  Too many people I  know or have met or have heard about got sick because of breast cancer and NEVER got better.   

Fatigue from staying up way too late with friends who are like family.  I am pooped, but my stomach and cheeks hurt from laughing WAY too much.  My heart is overflowing when I'm around them.  They travel this spiritual journey with me every year and, because of that, I will always have a special connection with them.  I don't know what I did to get to know relationships like these, but I am eternally grateful and will never, ever take that gift for granted.

That's the best birthday present I got today.

xoxo,
Kim 







Friday, October 17, 2014

A 21.4 mile walk.

SYNOPSIS:  The alarm went off at 5:30 am this morning.  Team Diamond Stone woke up, all of us spread out all around the house that sleeps 17 (that we rented for the long weekend), and began layering up team shirts, cushioned socks, and lots & lots of pink apparel (it's 51 degrees outside peeps!).  It's too bad that Kim, Melissa & Mary stayed up talking & giggling like school girls till 1:00 am (have I told you how therapeutic this weekend is for me/us???).  Before coffee was finished and bagels were fully toasted, two Lincoln Navigators picked us up out front (at 6:30 am) and we were on our way to Stone Mountain Park for Day 1 of the 2014 Komen 3 Day event.  I was crying before 7 am.

Team Diamond Stone 
7:00 am 
Stone Mountain Park
Day 1 of 2014 Komen 3 Day Atlanta



Signs at the Opening Ceremony

Did I tell you that Cati Diamond Stone, my unbelievable friend & team captain, is the Executive Director of Komen Atlanta?  Yep.
She welcomed the walkers at the Opening Ceremony.


 This is a banner that we were allowed to sign as a memorial for those we've lost to breast cancer.
I signed for Mrs Lorelei Schuman and my friend Wanda, two of the most recent friends who've succumbed to this terrible disease.




 Team Diamond Stone's shoes -- ready to tackle 60 miles in 3 days!



 Cati & her sweet daddy, Dr. Dalton Diamond

 Joi & Martha


 Forget the blisters, Mary's got swollen fingers

 I think I might like this church.

 Part of the Atlanta skyline


 About 2 miles to go on Day 1

 21.4 MILES DOWN
DAY 1
BOOM!


We're back at the house.  Most of us have showered.  We all have eaten & fixed a drink.  We're talking about the fun events of the day & are already planning for tomorrow.  And another 20 miles.  But all I can think about are the few people (walkers) who were invited to speak this morning at the Opening Ceremony.  They were obviously told to step up on the stage,  speak in to the microphone and explain why they're walking.

The first walker to speak was a man.  He slowly stepped up to the mike and said, "I'm walking for my wife.  My best friend.  My soul mate.  And my partner for 38 years.  I miss her every day.  And I don't want her to be forgotten.  I love you, honey!"  Tears were rolling down his cheeks.  And mine.

I am incredibly lucky that my friend (and the reason I participate in this exact event) is alive and well and cancer-free.  Cati is beside me, every step of the way, laughing and cutting up and limping and talking and planning about next year and comparing stories of raising 5 year olds and reminiscing about our college days.  Cati is happy and healthy and right.freaking.here.  I can't imagine her not being here.  

That sweet, gentle man who spoke this morning shouldn't have ever had to realize a reality without his sweetheart.  

No one should lose their wife.  

No child should lose their mom.

No woman should lose her mom, sister, aunt, grandma or friend.  

No person should ever have to lose anyone to a horrific disease like this.

And that message, and that sweet man's words and tears, and my friend, Cati, and many, many, many others are why I started walking and didn't stop for 21.4 miles today.


xoxox, 
Kim